Balik sekolah tadi Miss 7 terus cakap, “Mum, we were told a bad news that happened on Monday.” I terus tanya dia apa. She said, “Ms A’s baby died. I’ve got a note here for you to read about it.”
Terus terkedu I kat situ jugak and bila I baca the note, terus rasa sebak sangat2 and bergenang air mata I. She delivered a stillborn baby girl.
Ms A was Miss 7’s class teacher who taught the class on Wednesday, Thursday and Friday. Her class has a different teacher on Monday and Tuesday, ala2 tag team lah. And Ms A took maternity leave about a month ago to prepare for the birth of her child sometime in November tak silap I. We all tertanya2 jugak whether she has delivered or not and suddenly we were told about this bad news.
The Principal came to Miss 7’s class tengah hari tadi to break the news to them. And the kids were also given a note to give to the parents so we know what’s happening kalau tiba2 our kid tanya about death and babies or if they are feeling sad. Everyone was so down tadi. ye lah, we saw her every day with her tummy makin hari makin besar and she shared about the baby’s development with the class and talked about the baby with her class. So, kiranya macam the baby was also their baby so to lose it was really heart wrenching for the students.
Deepest condolences for Ms A & family. I know there are no words anyone could say that could heal your pain but hopefully, one day, you’ll be able to smile again.
Enough of the sad stuff….
Malam ni dinner we all was fish n chips. I used atlantic cod for the fish.
Fish n chips makan dgn salad and mayo+hot chilli sauce. I selalunya makan fish n chips with tomato sauce but lately I suka makan dengan hot chili sauce mixed with mayonnaise. Sedap sangat!
19 comments:
i bace ni pon dah sedih youuu :(
turut bersedih dari malaysia. setiap yang hidup pasti akan mati. btw kak, im always follow ur blog. big fan! hehehe. ape macam aussie? dah snow ke?
my condolences to Miss A..it's not easy, losing a loved one..
condolences to ur daughter's teacher. Sedihnya. slalunye stillbirth risk factors are the same risk factors for haemorrhage: pre-eclampsia/eclampsia, chromosomal abnormalities, placental factors, trauma to mother during 3rd trimester, etc. :(
btw, with the fish & chips, u guna batter apa? is it tepung/garam or ada spesel tepung/batter mix? nampak sangat cool & i'm sure sedapss!!
hurmm , sian :'(
tapi makanan tu mengganggu mood yang baru nak sedih la . ekeke xP
Takziah buat seluruh keluarga Ms A. Semoga dia tabah...
Nadia,
I pun sedih sgt2 sbb the teacher was so so nice to everyone.
Shaofie,
tu lah kan, tapi sedih sgt2 sbb still baby lagi :-(.
OZ ni kan kat Hemisphere Selatan so skrng tgh Summer, panas ya amat!
Dinas,
The whole class rasa mcm diaorang yg lost the baby, tu yg sedih nya tu :-(
A~,
I tanya jugak my daughter whether they told her why the baby died. She said even the doctor was baffled and couldnt find the cause. Kesian kan!
Fish tu I guna batter soda water, SRF, egg, salt, pepper and five spice powder. Slalunya orang buat beer batter, but I ganti soda water :-).
Nabilah,
eheheh...nampak food, dari sedih tukar ke lapar mood ye :-)
Kak Azie,
I tak boleh bayangkan macam mana perasaan sedih nya skrng ni :-(
OMG!... i hope budak2 ni sume ok, good move sekolah kasi notes ke parents, at least blh explain psl death ni.
Anis,
tu lah, the school sgt2 prihatin benda2 mcm ni. At least senang lah kan the parents nak explain kat the kids.
Berat mata memandang berat lagi bahu yang memikul. Semoga Miss A's terus tabah dan kuat semangat. Dan semoga Miss 7 tak sedih sedih lagi lepas ni.
That's just so sad. Especially kalay Nursery semua dah siap. Similar situation happened to my Aunt-In-Law (betul tak description? my spouse punya aunt). She was scheduled to have a C-Section. And they couldn't find the heart beat right before they had to perform the surgery. But she still had to go through it, though only to go to his funeral. It was sad. After hearing the news, the jiran pergi rumah dia, clearkan the nursery. It was hard to explain that to 3-year-old cousin who was confused/irritated sebab semua orang took the stuff away from the nursery.
i guess i still have a heart, got emotional reading this post.
SDB...always serving my kind of food
wats SRF, sis?
turut sedih sis...
I pun dah stuck dgn my husband punya ajaran mix the chili sauce + mayonnaise..so yummy!
condolence for Ms.A n her family...:(
huhu....akak mkn tomato saouce ke? kat umah ayu tak laku tomato sauce.beli pun sbb nak guna dlm masakan.klu dipping...depa prefer cili sauce lg.faris siap leh jilat sauce tu smpai licin.haih...
ayu pun suka combination cili sauce + mayo.pastu tabur black pepper.ada masa ayu combine cili sauce + thousand island
salam puan serai,
kami sekeluarga pun semalam mengalami nasib sama. Adik ipar kami pun bersalin baby tak cukup bulan n baby meninggal 5 hour after delivered semalam. Budak2 di rumah (anak2 sedara yang usia bawah 7 tahun) baru kali pertama tenguk baby yang kecil kene kafan n solat jenazah, masing2 daripada terloncat loncat n terjerit2 terus terdiam n terkejut.
Tapi bagus sekolah di sana, depa dah terangkan awal2 jadik kanak2 mudah faham..
alahai, my deepest condolences for Miss A & her family...
Kak Acik,
Miss 7 tak dpt tidur malam tadi tp bila we all tanya whether dia asik terfikir pasal the baby, dia kata tak. Hopefully, malam ni dia boleh tidur lah.
T,
I think it's the same with the teacher as well. Had to go through labour just so they could bury the baby :-(. And she also has an older daughter who's not yet 2.
Budak2 lah I think take it the hardest because it si quite difficult for them to understand.
Noir,
Your heart is just well hidden ;-).
A~,
self raising flour, hehehe
Deqlis,
memang sedih kan :-(
Mamalisa,
I tak dpt lagi convert my kids and hubby to chili sauce+mayonaise ni. Diaorang still nak makan tomato sos jugak!
Ayu,
I sekali beli tomato sos yg 4 litre tu punya! Sekejap aje habis, hehehe. Mat Saleh kat rumah ni, memang nak tomato sos with everything, tak larat I, hahaha
Onna,
salam. Innalillah. Baby tu sekarang dah jadi bidadari syurga kan. Mesti budak2 tu tergamam kan tengok baby di kafan :-(.
Sooyaree,
The students sayang sgt2 kat that teacher which makes it even sadder :-(
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