1 day at a time…..

Makin lega hati I bila tau ramai Mums yang garang and kurang sabar macam I kat donia ni, hehehehe….

And starting from semalam, I tried to change a little bit of my behaviour.

I make a conscious decision to zip my mouth quickly whenever the urge to membebel starts to materialise.

(We were told semalam that it is much better to clearly explain to our kids ONCE what we want, what we are dissatisfied with, which behaviour we dont like than terus2an membebel because they will completely shut our voice off if we membebel.)

It is hard let me tell you!

Ye lah kan, after so many years of membebel, tetiba terpaksa zip the mouth, memang lah susah, hikhikhikhik….

I dont think I will achieve the ‘non bebel’ stage 100% but I will be happy if I can kurangkan ia gradually and slowly .

And (maybe because of that),  we had a marvellous day today without any fights and arguments!

We spent an hour at the park this evening, Miss 12 playing frisbee with The Other Half while I power walked around the lake with Miss 8 riding on her bike. I think both girls enjoyed spending time with 1 parent just to themselves.

I did 11 laps and Miss 8 did 22 laps. Every 1 lap I powerwalked, she rode 2 laps around to catch up with me again.

We finally did some exercise, yeayyyyy!!!!!! hahahahaha.

I want my old svelte body back, heeeeeee…….

But makan tetap macam tu jugak, belum kurang lagi, macam mana nak kurus kan! hahahaha….

Last night for dinner, I made beef stir fry with veges makan dengan rice noodle rolls.

I marinated the beef strip in garlic, ginger and soy sauce. Pastu fry them on high heat in a bit of oil until masak. Then take them out of the wok.

Pastu I gunakan the leftover oil and beef juice in the wok tu to fry the rice noodle rolls. I guna fresh rice noodles so cuma kena soak it in hot water for a few minutes first before stir frying them.

Lepas dah all the noodles coated in the beef juice and oil, transfer them to a plate.

Then I added more oil to the wok and on high heat, fry 1 onion cut into wedges, julienned carrots and green capsicum, choy sum and bean sprout. Pastu add sweet chilli sauce, black bean sauce and soy sauce to the veges. Bila sayur dah masak, baru masukkan the beef and mix them all together.

Then pour the beef and vege mixture on top of the rice noodles.

Bila nak makan, just ambik a bit of rice noodles and the beef and the veges.